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Women’s Sexual Arousal Relies on Sexual Fantasies

Real female orgasms involve the release of sexual emotions not romantic feelings. So it does not matter how much you love your partner, orgasm will not materialize out of thin air.

Orgasm requires at least a few naughty thoughts from time to time, so if your conscience is as clear as a nun’s then you can forget about ever having one.

<i>”Few of us reach orgasm without fantasy, so let your imagination go wild! … Don’t get hung up about your fantasy; it doesn’t mean you’re odd, gay or secretly want to be raped. Most women fantasize about things they wouldn’t dream of doing in real life – that’s why we call them fantasies.” (p13 Hot Sex 1998)</i>

It turns out that women use sexual fantasies for sexual arousal and to generate a release of sexual emotions (orgasm) not only during masturbation but also during sex with a partner.

<i>”Many times sexual fantasies are used to induce or enhance sexual arousal, and while fantasies are often combined with masturbation to provide a source of turn-on when a partner is not available, fantasies are also extremely common during sexual activity with some one else. For instance, one study of 212 married women found that sex fantasies help many women achieve sexual arousal and/or orgasm during sexual intercourse.” (p416 Human Sexuality (fifth edition) 1995)</i>

<b>Some women’s sexual fantasies do not transfer to sex.</b>

Some women find that they are not able to use their sexual fantasies effectively during sex with a partner. It has been suggested that this is particularly true for complex and surreal fantasies (as they often are). The presence of another person interferes with the mental focus needed to generate sufficient arousal for orgasm.

To generate enough arousal to reach the heights of orgasm, my brain really has to focus. Even a dripping tap or someone else’s presence is enough to destroy my mental absorption in a sexual fantasy. So there is no question of being able to fantasize effectively during sex with a partner.

Women also have to work harder than men to generate orgasm from a much lower base level of sexual arousal. So we have to be more inventive about our sexual fantasies and their surreal nature can make them more difficult to relate to a sex life with a real-life partner.

<i>”Roxanne, a forty-seven-year-old psychiatrist, explains also that ‘women probably fantasize more and harder than men, because the traditional idea of feminine behavior is a burden to a woman during sex.

Fantasy restores the balance. Add to that that women spend more time thinking up stories anyway, and read more fiction than men, and you’ve got a wild world in there … lewd extravagances that I’ll bet most men never come even close to imagining.’

By focusing on some aspect of sex that she finds particularly arousing, and by exaggerating it to the point of outrageousness, a woman increases her chances of climaxing.” (p179 Satisfaction Guaranteed 1996)</i>

Los Angeles, CA (PRWEB) May 15, 2006

SKETCHES OF ROME

She could draw his image, naked, perfect, and sensual—before she ever saw his face…

Rome DeMitri has sworn off women for good. That is until he uncovers sexually withdrawn artist, Dana Baker’s sexy secret. A sketchbook filled with erotic images of Dana and a lover that bares a striking resemblance to Rome’s own image.

Knowing this other side to his uptight neighbor makes his body ache with such a heated intensity, he devises a plan to use her own drawings to seduce her. Soon, Rome unleashes a fiery and passionate woman hiding under her demure exterior!

He will stop at nothing to have her. Little does he know—he already has…

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ABOUT AUTHOR

Bonnie Williams has been of member of Romance Writers of America for 5 years. She has a bachelor’s Degree from California State University, Los Angeles where she graduated magna cum lauda as well more then twenty 25 years in the world of art and creativity in general. Many of her admiring fans find her dichotomy of art verves business an intriguing one – but one she harmoniously excepts into her life with ease. This is her third novel. Her other erotic titles include, Tempt Me, and Tease Me, and her soon to be release title, Take Me,and she’s veyr excited to announce her new up-coming book which is also as her first non-fiction title “How to write a sexy Romance in 14 days or less”. Bonnie not only designs her own covers, she also creates the sexy male nude drawings shown on the front and back covers of Sketches of Rome. Bonnie also loves to here from her readers.

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