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2002-04-02 Guest: Tristan Taormino Tristan Taormino shares what her fantasies would be if she was with Drew, then Adam. Classic.

Michael shares his sexual fantasies with Kimberly. Both of them are unaware that she’s developing double personalities such as prudish and “desperate houswife” Betsy.

Women’s Sexual Arousal Relies on Sexual Fantasies

Real female orgasms involve the release of sexual emotions not romantic feelings. So it does not matter how much you love your partner, orgasm will not materialize out of thin air.

Orgasm requires at least a few naughty thoughts from time to time, so if your conscience is as clear as a nun’s then you can forget about ever having one.

<i>”Few of us reach orgasm without fantasy, so let your imagination go wild! … Don’t get hung up about your fantasy; it doesn’t mean you’re odd, gay or secretly want to be raped. Most women fantasize about things they wouldn’t dream of doing in real life – that’s why we call them fantasies.” (p13 Hot Sex 1998)</i>

It turns out that women use sexual fantasies for sexual arousal and to generate a release of sexual emotions (orgasm) not only during masturbation but also during sex with a partner.

<i>”Many times sexual fantasies are used to induce or enhance sexual arousal, and while fantasies are often combined with masturbation to provide a source of turn-on when a partner is not available, fantasies are also extremely common during sexual activity with some one else. For instance, one study of 212 married women found that sex fantasies help many women achieve sexual arousal and/or orgasm during sexual intercourse.” (p416 Human Sexuality (fifth edition) 1995)</i>

<b>Some women’s sexual fantasies do not transfer to sex.</b>

Some women find that they are not able to use their sexual fantasies effectively during sex with a partner. It has been suggested that this is particularly true for complex and surreal fantasies (as they often are). The presence of another person interferes with the mental focus needed to generate sufficient arousal for orgasm.

To generate enough arousal to reach the heights of orgasm, my brain really has to focus. Even a dripping tap or someone else’s presence is enough to destroy my mental absorption in a sexual fantasy. So there is no question of being able to fantasize effectively during sex with a partner.

Women also have to work harder than men to generate orgasm from a much lower base level of sexual arousal. So we have to be more inventive about our sexual fantasies and their surreal nature can make them more difficult to relate to a sex life with a real-life partner.

<i>”Roxanne, a forty-seven-year-old psychiatrist, explains also that ‘women probably fantasize more and harder than men, because the traditional idea of feminine behavior is a burden to a woman during sex.

Fantasy restores the balance. Add to that that women spend more time thinking up stories anyway, and read more fiction than men, and you’ve got a wild world in there … lewd extravagances that I’ll bet most men never come even close to imagining.’

By focusing on some aspect of sex that she finds particularly arousing, and by exaggerating it to the point of outrageousness, a woman increases her chances of climaxing.” (p179 Satisfaction Guaranteed 1996)</i>

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In this clip plaintiff’s attorney Geoffrey Feiger questions former Jenny Jones Show producer Karen Campbell about her asking guests about sexual fantasies during their pre-interviews. Feiger builds up his case and it pays off in the end with an outburst of laughter in the court room.
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Scots stand-up comedienne Janey talks about Attention Deficit Disorder and her sexual fantasies in an extract from her show at East Kilbride Arts Centre, Scotland, on 9th February 2007. – CAUTION this clip may offend as it contains strong language and sexual references. All you need to know about Janey Godley can be found at: www.janeygodley.com Thank for watching
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Sexual Fantasy – 6 Common Concerns of Christians

Sexual fantasy as an acceptable idea, much less a positive one, seems to be rare in the Christian community.  Many people may not have given the concept much thought but just have a negative “feel” about it.  A common response to the idea of sexual fantasy is, “Well, I do not see anything that leads me to believe that sexual fantasies are wrong, but I just think they are.” 

I am going to list some reasons Christians hold a negative belief about sexual fantasy and then a response to those beliefs.

1. They think that sexual fantasy is connected with pornography.

Yes, some fantasies are products of suggestive ads, movie and T.V. scenes, and even pornography.  So while fantasies can come from these things, it is important to note that individuals have fantasies regardless of whether they have ever seen pornography of any type.  I do not believe that a negative source always leads to a problematic fantasy, but that possibility is there. To counter this problem couples should be honest about the source of their fantasies.  If the fantasizer knows the source of the fantasy and it is something negative or immoral, that fact should be discussed and addressed.  For some that will make the fantasy bad, for others it will not be an issue.

2. They are taught so often that sexuality is bad before marriage that they have a hard time removing the mental barriers after they get married.

This is a difficulty for many couples.  However, to state it succinctly, married life is categorically different from single life and a completely different set of rules is in play.  Once sexual intercourse becomes acceptable, thinking about sexual intercourse does also, as it would be difficult to have sex but never think about it.  When that problem is present the couple needs to address it and make an effort to move past it.

3. They have not spent much time focusing on their own fantasy lives and do not think a fantasy life is important.

Choosing to ignore fantasies yourself does not make them wrong for others.  No one should be forced to think about their fantasies by their spouse or anyone else, but the person does need to realize that others will choose to focus on their own respective fantasies.  Even if one member of a couple does choose to ignore their own fantasies, they should remember that they should be offering their bodies and minds to their spouse.  The needs of one spouse become the needs of both.  As usual, open discussion is encouraged.

4. They think all fantasies focus on immoral things and that the underlying action is wrong.

This is common because some fantasies would be sinful if they were acted out.  A common one that fits this description is the fantasy of having sex with multiple people.  The fact that for some fantasies the underlying action is wrong does not mean that is true for all fantasies.  This potential problem should be examined case by case.  For a sexual fantasy the questions should be asked:  What are the specific actions that they believe are immoral?  Why are they immoral?  Just because a topic is not discussed from the pulpit on Sunday does not make it a sin.  Sexual fantasies can be sinful, but they are not necessarily sinful.  Many are helpful and God given.

5. They think that fantasies are about people other than one’s spouse.

The most common fantasy for most people is having great sex with their current partner.  They should not let jealousy and insecurity get in the way of something that has the potential to strengthen their marriage.  Honesty between spouses can help remove this concern.   When discussing a fantasy the fantasizer can be sure to make it clear that the fantasy revolves around their spouse.

6. They are resentful that they have not had their fantasies fulfilled in the marriage.

If their fantasies are not being fulfilled, it is time to start doing something about that problem.  The answer to unfulfilled fantasies is not to dismiss them altogether, it is to understand and embrace them.  Being quietly resentful is never helpful in any area and sexual fantasy is no different.

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SKETCHES OF ROME

She could draw his image, naked, perfect, and sensual—before she ever saw his face…

Rome DeMitri has sworn off women for good. That is until he uncovers sexually withdrawn artist, Dana Baker’s sexy secret. A sketchbook filled with erotic images of Dana and a lover that bares a striking resemblance to Rome’s own image.

Knowing this other side to his uptight neighbor makes his body ache with such a heated intensity, he devises a plan to use her own drawings to seduce her. Soon, Rome unleashes a fiery and passionate woman hiding under her demure exterior!

He will stop at nothing to have her. Little does he know—he already has…

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ABOUT AUTHOR

Bonnie Williams has been of member of Romance Writers of America for 5 years. She has a bachelor’s Degree from California State University, Los Angeles where she graduated magna cum lauda as well more then twenty 25 years in the world of art and creativity in general. Many of her admiring fans find her dichotomy of art verves business an intriguing one – but one she harmoniously excepts into her life with ease. This is her third novel. Her other erotic titles include, Tempt Me, and Tease Me, and her soon to be release title, Take Me,and she’s veyr excited to announce her new up-coming book which is also as her first non-fiction title “How to write a sexy Romance in 14 days or less”. Bonnie not only designs her own covers, she also creates the sexy male nude drawings shown on the front and back covers of Sketches of Rome. Bonnie also loves to here from her readers.

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